Running

[rebeccmeister]

I shouldn't call my activity "running." Much more like jogging; that's less insulting to people who can actually run. I'm still surprised to find myself doing it. I'm not going especially far or anything, but I can tell I need to burn off the energy.

I admire those of you who are able to be articulate about relationship-related matters.

I tend to agree with the psychologists who view catharsis as a problematic strategy for coping with difficult emotions.

There are points where moving to a brand-new city feels like forcing one's identity through a keyhole.

Comments

[ivy]

Not since middle school gym or so. After I see the results of this weekend I will decide whether I want to sign up for this or not. I love the Fleet Feet folks, they're super nice, but a) "run around Capitol Hill" probably means "run on concrete" and my knees haaaate that, and b) inside of my head I am not at all a nice person when running/asthmatic. I really have to work to be civilized. Like, people will say "Good job!" and I think "FUCK YOU THIS IS AWFUL!" and I have to remember not to say that or glare. [rueful grin] Especially when they love running, which most people who show up to a running event do. Everyone manages the body under stress in their own way... some people get full of despair, some people just want to follow orders until it's over, I apparently get really toothy. But I have to ride herd on that to continue to live up to being the nice person I want to be, so I'm a little nervous about signing up for something where I am going to have to be in that place and also regularly communicate with people I like without looking snarly.

[rebeccmeister.livejournal.com]

Everyone manages the body under stress in their own way... some people get full of despair, some people just want to follow orders until it's over, I apparently get really toothy. But I have to ride herd on that to continue to live up to being the nice person I want to be, so I'm a little nervous about signing up for something where I am going to have to be in that place and also regularly communicate with people I like without looking snarly.


Ach, there is SO MUCH TRUTH to this.

I could tell you many stories about me getting all sobby towards the end of brevets (apparently despair takes over when I'm that exhausted).

A big part of training and practice is the MENTAL side of it, so I'm glad to observe that you're getting in good preparation and self-tests in advance of committing to the big and potentially crazy events. And you know yourself pretty well, which helps (but makes disappointments like that one trail marathon a bit more painful because you sure tried to communicate what you knew but got blown off and suffered the consequences).

[ivy]

Yeah, for me sobby is "eat something". But like you say, I know that through having practised a lot, heh. (Good judgment comes from experience, experience comes from poor judgment... but at least I have mostly learned from my mistakes!) So I think my next step is to find some free time and do the Olympic distance run-bike-run just to make sure that I can just knock that out the way I think I can. (I'm guessing that's ~4 hours of work for me, we'll see.) I foresee some time staring at maps to find a course where the start and finish are on trail or gravel... maybe I can start at the Arboretum (it's cherry blossom season!) and finish along that Lake Sammamish trail or something. But then I have to either ride back over all those crappy hills again (good training!) or make Mayhem come and fetch me, heh.

[goes back to staring at maps]